Life Manual Newsletter No.8
Without denying the reality of miracles, it is important to accept that real change will take real time. In our process of healing or change, there will be many breakthrough moments. There will also be times when temporarily it can seem that things are getting a whole lot worse. We are swimming along happily in a blue sunny sea, and suddenly something else pushes us under the waves into the darker depths. Worse still, when we look at those depths, they are very familiar, and we can despair, feeling that this is something we already changed or healed. It’s so important in those times to know that it is a deeper layer that has been brought to awareness.
It doesn’t invalidate the previous breakthroughs … without those, you couldn’t have reached this level. Although we often forget or distrust, life is actually on our side. If we really want our healing and change, then we can totally guarantee that what needs healing will be shown to us. It isn’t God or luck that is out to get us, it is our deep wish for things to be different.
Don’t waste time in blame
This is a familiar theme by now!! When we hit the depths again, there is a great temptation to hit back. God, the healing programme, life, family, lovers and the boss can all get the blame when we lose sight of our sunny horizon. Stand still, centre yourself, accept and feel the feeling. It is your feeling, not someone else’s fault. Everytime you accept the feeling, and deal with it, rather than b;aming or sinking into self pity, is another step to the freedom and happiness we seek.
It’s not the truth, it is just our feeling, and many are a programmed response from our past. As we feel through it, we are changing the past in the present. This is how we responded in the past, a habit of our subconscious mind formed in the patterns of the past. If that feeling is exploding or gushing out of us, it is even better news. We are in touch with feelings buried in our unconscious. These are always sitting there, waiting to be triggered at any moment of our lives, until we release it.
This is where the model that Chuck and Lency have developed is so superb. The combination of feeling our way back to the sunlit swimming with the healing steps that Chuck teaches means we always have a perfect solution. We can’t fail as long as we go with the flow of feeling, rather acting out on it. We don’t need to go into mental conniptions about the event or pattern that is being revealed.
THAT IS JUST RESISTANCE – IT PREVENTS OR RELIEVES US FROM THE FEELING, from getting the healing that this moment can give us.
That is not to say that an insight, an aha moment, isn’t helpful. but what is vital is that we take a step forward with our feelings.
Taking the next step to the future
This can seem hard at first, but as you become familiar with the patterns of the Psychology of Vision model, thoroughly covered in Life Manual, it becomes easier.
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