In the Life Manual Modular Study Course, the aim is always the ‘How To’, for problems only exist to be solved, and our aim is always to share solutions. Similarly, the Life Manual Newsletter, will dicuss personal development with insights and tools from Psychology of Vision that help take us forward to the happiness and success we all desire in life and relationships. These are set within the contexts of current personal transformation themes.
The first five newsletters form a mini course in themselves, to give you an overview of the Psychology of Vision model, at the same time as giving you an opportunity to use some of the simple but effective tools that enable change and transformation. These also link to the free download samples which are sections and exercises, from the Life Manual.
- If you are new to Psychology of Vision, it will give you insights into how these concepts really make a difference.
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Below, is Newsletter No.1, the first part mini series. On subscribing you will also be sent links to download the Sample Exercises. which give you insights as well as introducing you to some simple tools that form part of Psychology of Vision’s range of solutions to lead you beyond any blocks and extend your range of skills, confidence and emotional intelligence. This gives you additional opportunities to explore for yourself just how comprehensive this course and model is.
Life Manual Newsletter No.1
The Forgotten Secret of Change – Knowledge, Vision, Action
The personal development world is very vexed about the apparent failure of people to be able to manifest the life they want, despite their best efforts at installing new beliefs and visualising the future the want. I was just reading another email about the ‘missing instructions’ for The Secret this morning. For those of you who don’t know, or dismissed it years ago, The Secret is about our power to manifest the life we want, rather than believing we live at the mercy of a life handed out by fate.
Chuck Spezzano has written a great deal about how we manifest our life and can even ask for and receive miracles. For those of you struggling to believe in your own powers to create your life, or worse still, about to try and change yourself belief by belief to achieve your best self and future, I wanted to share some understandings from Psychology of Vision.
The first thing to understand about ‘The Secret’ is that it is truly talking about a power that exists within all of us. It is there, whether we know it or not. If we want to understand how well it is working for us, then we need to look at our life and review how well we are doing in relationships, prosperity, happiness and fulfilment.
- NO BLAME. The first secret for taking full response-ability for our life is to let go of all blame. Just keep handing it up* … whenever we are blaming, we are off course, and hurting ourselves.
- BLAME MEANS SOMEONE IS GUILTY! When we are handing out blame, it is because at some level of our mind we believe we are guilty. If we didn’t, why would we want to blame? Self forgiveness, forgiving others, and acceptance are great ways to move forward from here.
(It can also save you about 1,000 beliefs you might end up working on too!! At worst, everyone was doing their best, and we all make mistakes. At best, see the funny side of how we hold our lives up with blame … and we all do it.)
- FORGIVENESS AND ACCEPTANCE CONNECTS US TO OUR TRUE SELF, the inner peace and joy that lies at the heart of every one of us. Everything else is just something to heal. From this place we begin to see the world as it truly is.
- CHANGING BELIEFS is not about taking on a whole new world view, piece by piece, (although it can help, it is a very slow road, and we risk implanting a few more false beliefs). It’s about seeing the reality of the power and goodness that we all have. It’s about letting go of our false beliefs to see the truth they hide.
Pulling up one false belief, leads to whole clusters or beliefs that were formed in our past experiences. These pattern our attitudes and how we handle what comes up for us in the present. These are stored in what we can call our subconscious mind, and by understanding our past and the conclusions we made then, we free up a great many false beliefs all in one go, and free our future from our past. This is a faster route to our true self. For instance, at some time in the past you may have decided that you would never be wise enough, beautiful enough, good enough to deserve a great life. However much youvisualise that great life, that old belief is still operating below consciousness. You are probably even acting in ways that sabotage your success.
Below that ‘habit’ mind is our true power house, the unconscious mind. Here is where we ae connected to our power to manifest. Our vision and creativity are stored here, but it gets buried beneath all ofthe blame and judgements. Here we also find our greatest false beliefs … dressed up as fear. Want to take response-ability one step further? Guess who put them there? We are truly more afraid of our power and success than we are of our failures. It’s not surprising that we are unable to access our manifesting power when we are so afraid of it.
When you forgive, you set yourself, and everyone free, and when there is nothing to forgive, what is there to fear? You begin to set your mind and your power free! On a conscious level, you can begin to start considering how the life you want will be, setting a vision for your future, that you can adjust as you go along. When there is no one to blame, in the past or the present, we have freed power for creating our lives that was previously working against us.
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*’Handing it up’! There are any number of ways to envision this. According to your own world view, you can see a light, a Higher Power, where the blame is dissolved into the light. You can call on your guide or Master to help, or see angels arriving with buckets or even skips to take the blame away. You can even have container lorries taking it off. The aim is to let go of the blame in a way that your mind accepts as a solution, and to carry out the visualisation to completion. You can repeat the process whenever blame rears its ugly head again, we all have layers of blame in our minds. Just remember that your judgements are harming you, they need to be let go, so you are free.
